Thursday, September 30, 2010

School dazes...

Today when I picked up the boys I found that Gabriel and Michael's teachers had both left me a letter.... again not a good sign...

Gabriel's teacher's note informed me that Gabriel has decided he no longer likes to take a nap at school and he doesn't think the other kids should take a nap either.  So, instead of being silent and lying quietly on his mat, he has decided to laugh and giggle out loud and then slide (or in Gabriel's term...slip) his mat over to the boy next to him to start playing.  After a firm talking to and a lesson about listening to the teacher Gabriel completed his first hand written letter.  This is what Gabriel will be taking back to school tomorrow...


And Michael... poor Michael... today while playing on the playground Michael got into a colony of fire ants.  Living in the desert I think we've all probably been stung by a fire ant or two, and learned our lesson to avoid them at any cost. Michael learned that lesson today by going into battle with a whole troop of fire ants.  He ended up losing the fight.  Two hours following recess and after scratching the bites unti his skin was scraped off, his teacher found his legs swollen, feverish and pussy.  After getting him home, cleaning him up and covering him in anti-inch medicine, here's his a shot of his battle wounds from today...



Tomorrow he'll be taking a note back to school too.  A note from Mommy that begs the teachers to keep him out of the wood chips!

Until next time,
Angie

I know I'm biased but...

how can one not agree; these boys are absolutely adorable...









Until next time,
Angie

The story behind a picture...

The other day I know I told a story about how Michael likes to carry the bag when we take Jack for a walk.  Can you guess what he did in this picture?
 Instead of carrying the bag in his hand he put the bag on just like one would put on a backpack.  I had to give him credit, I don't think I would have ever thought of that.

Michael and Jack have a love/hate relationship... sometimes they love each other but most of the time they, well, avoid each other.  Here is a rare moment of Jack and Michael sharing their love...
 The last time we went to the Library we checked out the old classic movie, Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer... the boys LOVE the movie and since then have been playing Santa Claus and Rudolph.  Here's a shot of how to play Santa Claus and Rudolph.  Can you guess who is Santa and who got to be Rudolph?  (Note they wanted to wear red and white but it was a fall Saturday and you know who was playing)
 Oh and the toys in the "sleigh" were being delivered all over the house to the boys and girls across the world.


Gabriel is our early morning riser, sometimes he rises so early, it is actually the middle of the night.  We've gotten into the habit of letting him get up on his own and go do quiet activities.  The other morning (if you could call it morning yet) I heard something out in the living room, thinking it was a fan that was off balance or something I wandered to the living room to see this...

Should I dare say I'm looking forward to the day when they want to sleep in?  At least 5:30 a.m. would be nice on Saturday mornings!

Here is Michael's attempt at dressing himself..
This is progress... at least the pants and shoes were on the right way!

Until next time,
Angie

Daddy's birthday...

This past Monday Daddy turned 31.  Three years ago Jarrett was in the middle of fighting cancer and from that experience we learned not to take birthdays for granted.  So we celebrate each and every birthday, even if it means we are getting older.
Of course for a 3 and a 4 year old birthdays are a wonderful thing and they couldn't wait to help Daddy celebrate his special day.  I had been asking the boys for a few weeks what we should get Daddy and every time they replied... "Mommy I think Daddy would like a tiny car."  "You mean like a matchbox car?"  "Yes Mommy a green one."  Instead of a green matchbox car, we decided homemade cards from the boys would be perfect.  As I watched and helped the boys create the cards for their daddy, Gabriel and Michael were talking about their daddy and singing him happy birthday, even though he was still at work.  I sat quietly and listened to them have the following conversation... Gabriel drew a heart on his card for Dad and Michael immediately noticed.  He said, "Gabriel why did you draw a heart?"  "Because it means I love you."  Michael said, "Gabriel who do you love?"  "Michael, this heart is for Daddy."  At which Michael replied, "Gabriel, why do you love Daddy?"  "Because he is my dad." 
It was as simple as that and although Michael immediately accepted Gabriel's answer and continued on talking, Gabriel's answer struck me and made me realize just how blessed both the boys and their Daddy is.  I guess if you'd ask most children why they love their parents, you might get a similar response.  To think that Gabriel has only known his "dad" for 4 months, it amazes me how his love can run so deep. It makes me realize just how powerful love is.  God has a plan for everything and I can't say it enough... I think He did a great job putting this plan together.

In addition to Daddy's homemade cards, we decided to get Daddy a bike stand that he's been asking for for a while.  Here are a few shots of the boys helping him open and admire his new toy...

 The boys wanted to carry Dad's present to him... it was a little big for them but they did it.


 The homemade birthday cards the boys made for Dad.

Until next time,
Angie

Friday, September 24, 2010

Short stories...

Disneyland:  We've been talking a lot lately about Disneyland, Disneyworld and Mickey Mouse.  I think I've mentioned before that the only reason why the boys think Jarrett and I work is so that we can "buy money to go to Disneyland".    Yesterday, after picking the boys up from school, we were headed home when all of a sudden Gabriel said, "Mom, does Mickey Mouse have a potty at Disneyland?"  "Yes Gabriel he does, why do you ask?"  "Well Mom, Me and Michael have to go potty a lot and what would would happen if we go to Disneyland and have to go potty? I'm so happy Mickey has a toilet for me and Michael." 

Patience:  Jarrett and I have been trying to teach the boys about being patient.  I think this is one of the harder lessons to teach and it seems our boys are so excited about everything that patience is , in Gabriel's words "A really hard" lesson to learn.   Today we had a series of appointments and errands to run and while we were in the car running from here to there, Gabriel, Michael and I were having one of our normal conversations... "Mommy?"  "Yes Michael?"  "Mommy, I love you!"  "I love you too Michael."  "Mommy?" "Yes Gabriel?"  "Mommy, can I have my sucker now?"  "No Gabriel, you can have your sucker after we stop at the store and after your doctor's appointment, if you are good."  "Mom, I have to be patient?"  "Yes honey you do."  Then, out of the blue Gabriel said, "Mommy?"  "Yes Gabriel?"  "Mommy, after we stop at the school and go to the doctor, I'm going to give you a big hug for being so patient and waiting for me while Michael and I were at Sally's house.  Thank you mommy for waiting for me and Michael to come live with you and Daddy." "Gabriel?" "Yes Mommy?"  "Gabriel, I love you!"

Superheros and Leaders:  The other day Gabriel's teacher stopped me as I was dropping him off.  With Gabriel standing at my side, Mrs. Stacey went onto stay that Gabriel is one of the leaders in her classroom and that she wants our help in encouraging him to be a stronger leader and to not give into peer pressure when his friends (or him) decide to make bad choices.  She encouraged us to read leadership style books and push him to become an even stronger leader.  I thought about what she said for a few days as I was trying to figure out exactly how do I talk to a 4 year old about being a strong leader.  Then I decided to try the old Superhero trick.  Gabriel loves superheros and I thought if we had the conversation that Superheros are leaders maybe he would understand the concept of how leaders and superheros make positive choices and that is what we want him to do.  I said Gabriel do you know that Superheros are leaders?  He responded with the normal answer, "Why Mom?"  I then went on to share that superheros, like Superman are leaders because other people want to be like him and that he makes good choices to help people.  Those are qualities we want you to have as a leader.  "Mom, how come I can't see superheros?"  Well honey, did you know that  police officers, ambulance drivers, and firefighters are superhero?"  "Really Mom, is that because they make positive choices to help people"  "Oh really Mom, the next time we see a police officer can you stop mom so I can ask them if they are a superhero and a leader?"  Sure Gabriel I will.  Ten minutes later Gabriel decided we had to call my brother, Uncle Jonas, who is a volunteer firefighter, to see if he is a superhero. Thankfully Jonas went along with my idea and agreed that he is a leader, being a superhero was more a stretch but at least he was convincing enough to satisfy Gabriel's curiosity.

Until next time,
Angie

Monday, September 20, 2010

A busy and fun weekend...

Our house has been looking forward to this past weekend for several months.... this was the weekend the Hawkeyes were suppose to dominate the wildcats from down south.  Instead, of showing how a #9 ranked team performs, the Hawkeyes went to sleep. 

Not knowing how the game was going to go, we were all excited to head down south and watch our beloved Hawks.  Here's a few photos of the highlights... there really weren't that many.  As you can see the Wildcats saved us Hawks some great seats.. these are the same views provided by the Goodyear Blimp.  I think we could have reached up and touched it just by standing up in our seats...


The game was disappointing but it was sure nice to be back around some Hawk fans.

Because it was so late when we got home on Saturday, Nana and Papa had a sleep over at our house.  The boys were very excited to wake up and find Nana and Papa were still here.


 On Sunday afternoon we had over Uncle Jeremy, the boy's cousins and our friends Dave and Tara and their two little ones for a swimming party...

With 7 kids, 6 years old and younger, you could say our house was a little chaotic.  But boy did we have fun.  Here's a shot of Nana reading to the kids... she ran out of lap space so she moved to the table and soon a the little ones followed. 

Later we all went swimming and enjoyed the last few days of the 110+ degree weather (at least we hope it is some of the last days of this heat).

And finally after swimming the kids were wiped out and decided to sit down for some quiet time...

What a fun weekend we had.  Dad and Mom were tired and so were the boys... last night I think we were all sleeping before 9:00 p.m.



These are the moments that make my heart overflow with happiness.

Until next time,
Angie

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

The school has LICE!

Everyday when I arrive at school we have to check in and check out the boys on the school's computer.  It is a pretty good system and tracks exactly down to the second what time you pick up and drop off. It is also good for sharing updates and announcements because when you check in and out it is a requirement for the parents to also read the messages (I guess that is the school's way to make sure their messages are being heard).  Usually the messages are: don't forget to pay your bill before the end of the day on Friday, We are having a special musical guest on Tuesday,  and school pictures are Thursday. 

Monday afternoon when I stopped to pick up the boys, I went to the computer to check out the boys and the big message box appeared.  Not thinking anything special of it, I opened the message to read, "A case of lice was found in the 2 year old room today, please take all of your child's personal belongings home to wash."  WHAT???? I turned around to the directors desk who is right inside the door.  Please tell me a little bit more about the message today.  She started, "Yes, unfortunately we found a little girl in the 2 year old room who had lice.  She went home and we are taking every measure possible to avoid the spread. Please take home any backpacks, jackets, blankets and wash them."  Lovely I said and continued onto pick up the boys in their classroom.

Exiting the school as quickly as possible and without touching anything, I loaded the boys into the car and asked them if they had touched anyone at school... Gabriel/Michael you didn't hug or touch anyone today did you?  Looking at me like I asked them to list of the names of the US Presidents in order of service, they looked at me, then at each other and shrugged their shoulders.  I don't know Mom Gabriel said.  Starting to freak out, I explain that someone at school as lice and that we have to go home take off all of their clothes and take a hot shower just to be safe.

As we pulled into the garage, I unloaded the boys and closed the garage door before going into the house.  Standing at the door going into the house I told the boys to take off all of their clothes in the garage, leave their shoes outside and once they had done that they could enter the house by throwing all of their clothes into the washing machine, which is so conveniently located right inside the door from the garage.  Again looking at me with a confused look Gabriel said, "Mom, you want me and Michael to get naked in the garage?"  Yes, honey that is exactly what I want you to do.

They must have sensed my urgency and concern as they did exactly what I said without saying, "But Mom" (which recently Gabriel has learned is a way to question everything I ask him to do).  Upon entering the house the boys ran straight to the shower which I scrubbed every inch of their body and hair for 20 minutes each.  Finally feeling like they had been decontaminated, I let them out of the shower into their pajamas to enjoy the rest of the evening.

That was day 1.

Day 2:  Hoping the one case of lice in the 2 year old room was just a fluke and isolated case, I sent the boys back to school on Tuesday with specific instructions not to touch anyone.  If someone wants to give you a high five or let them play with their toy, backpack, blanket, anything, just say NO.  If they ask why, just tell them my mom says I can't touch anything or anyone until she says it is safe again.  (Okay I know I've gone off the deep end on this but seriously I cannot have any part of this in our home or family).  The boys seems very agreeable to the order and went to school with the smile on their face and the rule in their mind. 

At pick up on Tuesday afternoon I prayed that the message screen would NOT appear and it would just be a normal pick up as most other days have been.  As I opened the door to the front desk a whole gaggle of parents were gathered around the directors desk.  That should have been my first sign.  I proceed to the computer and checked them out.  Immediately the message screen appeared.  I clicked to open it.  "Unfortunately we have had multiple (no number listed) other cases of LICE in all of our 2 year old rooms, and our 3 year old rooms, please take all personal belongings home and wash them with hot water."  YIKES!  Immediately rushing to Michael's room to get him out of the disaster zone I ran into his teacher who said, "I'm so sorry we had a case of lice in our classroom today.  We've checked all of the other children including Michael and he is fine but just make sure to wash everything he is wearing and his jacket in hot water.  You'll just want to check his hair over the next few days to make sure you don't see anything.  Feeling hot and sweaty I politely said thank you and ran out of the school with both of them running behind saying "Mom, wait for me!" 

In the car, feeling overwhelmed with the outbreak that seems to be apparent in the school, I said, "I'm going to pray to God that you boys do not get lice."  Saying it more as a statement of desperation, in please don't let this be happening, the boys took what I said literally.  All of a sudden I hear Gabriel from the back seat, "Dear God, mom says we need to pray to you so Michael and I don't get mice" I couldn't help but burst into laughter, you are right Gabriel lets just say a prayer right now.  "Dear God, please protect Gabriel and Michael, and for that matter Mommy, Daddy and Jack so we do NOT get lice. Amen!" 

Given them the run down again of what had to happen from the moment we pulled into the garage, the boys got out of their car seats, stripped down in the garage, threw their clothes in the washer which I washed in super hot water for 2 hours, and immediately went into the bathtub.  I told them we were going to scrub all up again and they went all along with it  Thankfully (thank you GOD) the boys have no signs and according to their teacher have not been in contact with the children who have it, but I am taking every precaution possible to make sure we do not bring this experience into our lives.  We continue to break out in prayer every few hours just to make sure our prayers are being heard above loudly and clearly.

In fact the boys were able to have a play date with dad.  Making the decision it wasn't worth entering the danger zone for a third day, today the boys spent an exciting day at home with their daddy.  It was a wonderful day, or at least it seemed, the house wasn't in total ruins when I got home and they all seemed to be very happy that all the boys got to spend the day playing with cars, Lego's and blocks.

Tomorrow they'll be going back to the war zone and I'll reinforce the no touching rule.  I'm just counting down the days until the weekend when we hope what ever danger is left at the school can be eliminated before Monday.

Oh life is exciting these days, as if we didn't have enough excitement, adding in lice at the school is about as much excitement as I can handle.  Lets just hope it stays at the school.

Until next time, I'll be scrubbing, decontaminating, inspecting and praying!
Angie